San Francisco Dating Secrets




Now that BMO Bank and MSNBC have reported that dates now "cost at least 250 bucks", and the other news reports a group in the Bay Area called the 'Bush-Whackers' who have a mooch competition, You should not be going to any restaurants with anybody from the internet until you have known them, in-person, for at least 2 weeks.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/annatong/2026/06/07/the-nerdy-escorts-cashing-in-on-silicon-valleys-ai-boom/

A huge number of profiles are fake and computer-generated. Another huge bunch of profiles are shills paid to keep guys engaged for profit. I figure if someone has an ad out for the most important job in their life and can't find 30 minutes to meet, no matter how busy things are; then something is scammy. If someone can't meet "for a few weeks" and has not paused their profile, it has turned out (Every single time according to millions of singles on Reddit) that they never intend to meet.

Almost all profiles on the internet are 'ai' bots, guys pretending to be girls or data harvesters. Thus, there is no point in the "get to know you" line. Anyone that is real will meet ASAP to prove they are real.

"ai" = They Spy!

There are thousands of news and congressional reports about the fact that every Silicon Valley and Big Tech site copies, stores, analyzes, aggregates and resells everything you text, type, read, do and experience on the web. Dating sites, sales sites, medical sites, search engines, etc. do this the most. All your photos are cross checked to access your bank accounts, medical and political. The shows: 'The Audacity', 'House of Cards', 'Enemy of The State', etc. detail examples of this based on actual circumstances. The data is used to track you, harm you, spy on you, look at (or steal and manipulate) your financial, medical, social, political, sexual and procedural records. Any 'ai' software from Claude, Palantir, Google, Anthropic Mythos, Flock cameras, Clearview, OKCUPID, Match.com, etc., can build a warrant-less, Constitutional rights-violating, life-file, with everything you ever did, in a few minutes. That data will be used to blackmail, leverage, manipulate or abuse your human rights. Don't feed the digital beast! It will always come back and bite you! "ai" data centers exist entirely to spy on you and your family and manipulate your politics, ideology and buying patterns.

  1. Federal Trade Commission

    https://www.ftc.gov › legal-library › browse › cases-proceedings › okcupidmatch
    1. OkCupid/Match - Federal Trade Commission

    The FTC reached a settlement with OkCupid and its affiliate Match Group Americas over allegations OkCupid deceived users of its dating app by sharing their personal information, including photos and location information, with an unrelated third party, contrary to OkCupid's privacy promises.


  1. Venable LLP

    https://www.venable.com › insights › publications › 2026 › 04 › ftc-okcupid-settlement-deceptive-data-sharing
    1. FTC OkCupid Settlement: Deceptive Data Sharing, Privacy Policy ...

    Read more for what the FTC's OkCupid settlement reveals about deceptive data practices, privacy compliance, and evolving enforcement in the age of AI.


  1. eavoices.com

    https://eavoices.com › 2026 › 05 › 01 › ftc-sues-match-okcupid-over-alleged-unauthorized-sharing-of-millions-of-users-personal-data
    1. FTC Sues Match, OkCupid Over Alleged Unauthorized Sharing of Millions ...

    From Architecture & Governance Magazine The Federal Trade Commission has filed suit against Match Group and OkCupid, alleging the companies misled millions of users by sharing sensitive personal data - including photos, geolocation data, and demographic information -with a third […]


  1. Ars Technica

    https://arstechnica.com › tech-policy › 2026 › 03 › okcupid-match-pay-no-fine-for-sharing-user-photos-with-facial-recognition-firm
    1. OkCupid gave 3 million dating-app photos to facial recognition firm ...

    OkCupid gave 3 million dating-app photos to facial recognition firm, FTC says OkCupid and Match settle with Trump FTC, don't have to pay any financial penalty.


  1. mcdermottlaw.com

    https://www.mcdermottlaw.com › insights › ftc-alleges-dating-app-overshared-with-third-parties
    1. FTC alleges dating app overshared with third parties

    On March 30, 2026, the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) announced a settlement with the online dating service provider Humor Rainbow, Inc., d/b/a OkCupid, and its parent, Match Group Americas (Match), alleging that the companies engaged in deceptive practices by sharing users' personal information with a third party in violation of their privacy representations.


  1. Jacobin

    https://jacobin.com › 2025 › 02 › dating-apps-match-group-lawsuit
    1. Dating App Giant Match Group Is Being Sued for Conning Users

    Many of the major dating apps are owned by one company, Match Group. The corporation is now facing a class-action lawsuit alleging that it is unlawfully misleading app users, violating false advertising and deceptive trade practices laws.


  1. Law.com

    https://www.law.com › corpcounsel › 2026 › 03 › 31 › ftc-zings-okcupid-over-mismatch-between-privacy-policy-and-actual-practices
    1. FTC Zings OkCupid Over Mismatch Between Privacy Policy and Actual ...

    A settlement unveiled Monday bars the company from misrepresenting its privacy practices and leaves the door open for civil penalties.


  1. Engadget

    https://www.engadget.com › cybersecurity › okcupid-settles-ftc-case-on-alleged-misuse-of-its-users-personal-data-175159228.html
    1. OkCupid settles FTC case on alleged misuse of its users ... - Engadget

    The lawsuit dates back to 2014. OkCupid settles FTC case on alleged misuse of its users' personal data OkCupid denied any wrongdoing and said it strengthened its privacy practices over the years.


  1. TCPAWorld

    https://tcpaworld.com › 2025 › 08 › 12 › ftc-says-its-over-dating-service-operator-match-group-to-pay-14m-for-deceptive-ads-and-cancellation-policies
    1. FTC SAYS 'IT'S OVER': Dating Service Operator, Match Group, to Pay $14M ...

    In yet another multi-million dollar enforcement action, Match Group, Inc. and Match Group, LLC ("Match"), owners of Match.com, OkCupid, Plenty of Fish, and The League, have agreed to pay $14 million and overhaul core business practices after the Federal Trade Commission ("FTC") accused them of engaging in deceptive advertising, unfair billing, and obstructive cancellation processes ...


  1. Pearl Cohen

    https://www.pearlcohen.com › ftc-settles-with-okcupid-over-deceptive-data-sharing
    1. FTC Settles with OkCupid Over Deceptive Data Sharing

    Written by: Haim Ravia, Dotan Hammer The Federal Trade Commission announced a settlement with dating app operator OkCupid (operated by Humor Rainbow, Inc.) and its affiliate Match Group Americas, resolving allegations that OkCupid violated Section 5 of the FTC Act by sharing users'

Have you found that some of these people's apartments smell like semen, vomit and desperation. Some of them think they are owed something because they have angular facial bone structure, even though they treat people like shit. The "successful people", that they say are 'after them', are nothing more than low-life, clone, douche-people. Some chose to modify and tattoo their body like an idiot and present themselves to others as a sex tool. Some chose to not take classes in school and instead partied their lives away with drugs and booze. Many choose to take an endless amount of photos of themselves making sex faces and sex poses in order to advertise themselves as a f*ck object and not a human being.

Types of people everyone has encountered on these dating sites:

- Foulmouthed, ruthless, inappropriate barflys who drink hugely, get high all day and can't wait to marry a meal ticket to get out of their bogus day job.

- Russian and Ukrainian manipulators, some of whom were former hookers, seeking as many free dinners and gifts as they can get from you before you figure out what they are up to.

- Transactional sex workers that post all of their Only Fans photos with a pout-y 'I have been a naughty girl, daddy' duplicate face expression

- Friend-With-Benefits

- Sugar Babies

- Silicon Valley CEO's and venture capitalists who spike your drink with Scopalomin ("Devils Breath")

- People dating a different one of the other 800,000+ single people online who will never stop dating. You see their same pictures on Match.com and OKCupid for decades. They always imagine that if they keep it up long enough they will "eventually find a good one" but their mindset forces them to find fault with every single person they meet.

- Hook-up enthusiasts

- Chinese girls sent over by rich Chinese families to get a guy, have two kids and then sue them for alimony.

- Political party voter list producers seeking to determine which party they can put you on a list for

- Poly, Bi, Trans I-will-fuck-anything people

- Married people who won't tell you they are married

- High tech Palo Alto women married to closeted gay husbands

- Impossibly attractive women who could not possibly need to use a dating site and eventually turn out to have a 'little secret'

- Alcoholics who don't think they are alcoholics

- Meth addicts

- Girls who have pictures of themselves in exotic places all over the world but work at Ross and are escorts on the side

- Guys pretending to be girls

- Evaluators for the Prince Of Dubai and other Saudi families who offer $200K per month to be a sex object in the Middle East palaces

- Central Casting-looking LA girls who are 'influencer' type narcissists who are only seeking to have as many guys as possible click on their profile in order to validate their opinions of themselves

- Nigerian scam-farm operatives

- Russian scam-farm operatives

- Oxytocin brain chemical junkies that get excited meeting someone a first time and then get bored by the end of the conversation and move to the next person

- A marathon dater going out with a different person every night to see which one will put out

- Computer generated fake profiles which act as click-bait for the dating site

- Clearview AI, Axciom, Tinder, Palantir and political photo harvesting services that scan your photos and run a global search for you on any other social media site and then cross compare your data to get your home address, bank records, abortion data, job records and other privacy data

- Chinese spy agency operatives

- Recently divorced, or recently broken up, people who are not past the brain chemistry addiction to their ex and will eventually go back to them.

- Bored people, just passing the time, who have no real interest in ever meeting.

- Cultists

- Fake daters hired, through third party suppliers, by the dating sites to generate the appearance of real people you are communicating with.

- A single parent looking for a new person to pay the mortgage and feed the kids

- Members of a political party who are just seeking to convert you to their agenda.

- 'Meal sluts" who have a different breakfast, lunch and dinner date with a different person, every day, to get free food. These kinds of people get a different person to buy them food every night. They drop off the ones that take them to the lesser restaurants and replace them constantly, all week, in order to have the richest people buying them the fanciest food.

- Silicon Valley guys who log all of their bad dates into the secret shared on-line cloud based database known as "Red-Cloud".

All the founders of the dating sites quit because they saw, first hand, that computerized dating can never work. The sites are now all owned by corporate investor groups who only care about getting your data and your cash. They care nothing about your hopes, dreams, emotions. Dating sites prey on human psychological frailty. (1.) Everyone is unconsciously thinking that "the next one might be better", so nobody is ever serious on them. For proof, ask your next date to delete their profile before meeting you. They won't...because: "the next one might be better". (2.) Most profiles are now computerized persona's and CGI pictures designed to suck your data and cash out of you. If you did not meet them in person, odds are they do not actually exist. (3.) You only get lucky on dating sites when they break. They are designed to keep you from getting off them. (4.) The human brain is not fully formed until you are about 32. Dating site software is designed to manipulate naive minds aged 18 to 30. People in that age range are targeted, exploited and served up like cheeseburgers by dating site software. It isn't you, it is the algorithm.

If you discuss, or expose these facts, OKCupid, Match.com, Humor Rainbow and the big dating cartel will have you ‘banned for life’ on all of their dating cartel websites.